Immy-Jimmy Our oldest daughter, Imagin, is 20 years old and currently attending college. She’s been working with me at the DQ since she was just 14, and from day one, she’s been one of the kindest, most considerate, and responsible people we know. Immy is the one who first made us parents—and in doing so, she taught us more about love, patience, and purpose than we ever imagined possible. Watching her grow into the incredible young woman she is today has been one of our life’s greatest blessings. She is a truly special soul, and we are so proud of her—not just for what she does, but for who she is.

Scott Scott is Brock’s dad—and there’s no doubt how much he adores his son and granddaughters. Brock has always looked up to his dad—not just as a father, but also as a true friend. They share everything in common, which is exactly why Brock wanted Scott standing beside him as his best man today. Scott wasn’t just my father-in-law for all these years—he was also my boss for 15 of them. And I can honestly say that the past two years of our relationship have been the best yet. I admire Scott deeply and appreciate the wisdom he’s passed on to me, whether he realizes it or not.

Jes-Bes Jessa, our second daughter, is 19 and began her college journey this past August. She’s been part of the DQ crew since she was just 13, showing a strong work ethic and even stronger style. Jessa is a creative, sensitive, and fashion-forward soul—full of wit, sass, and spark. True to the classic second-child role, she keeps us on our toes and brings a one-of-a-kind energy to our family. She makes us incredibly proud. Sure, she gives us a run for our money sometimes—but we wouldn’t have it any other way. Jessa is fiercely herself, and we’re so lucky to call her ours.

This is Stan—Brock’s uncle and lifelong role model. Words hardly do justice to how much Brock has looked up to him over the years. Stan is pure fun—if he’s in the room, you know a good time is about to follow. He simply won’t allow it to be anything else. So it was no surprise at all when Brock asked his Uncle Stan to stand with him on this special day. The two of them have more in common than we could ever list. Their bond runs deep, built on family, shared passions, and a whole lot of laughs.

Bray-Jay Our third-born, Bralan, is currently a sophomore in high school—and forever our sweetie. Though she’s now a teenager, she’s always been the quiet one. But when she chooses to speak, her words are thoughtful, wise, and often light up the whole room. She has this rare gift—when she laughs, everyone around her can’t help but join in. And when she cries, your heart just breaks with her. We count ourselves lucky every time she opens up, because her personality is truly infectious. Her presence may be gentle, but it’s powerful—and we’re so grateful she’s ours.

John (aka Pete) John—better known as Pete—has been Brock’s friend since 8th grade. The two of them were teammates on a legendary team in our area, and their bond has stood the test of time. Because Brock and I had children earlier than most of his friends, I didn’t really get to know Pete until more recently. But I knew of him through Brock’s stories—and through his father. Pete’s dad was our pastor during some of the hardest moments of our lives. He showed us what it truly means to live a life of faith, compassion, and grace. Now that we’ve been able to spend more time with Pete, I can say without a doubt—he is everything Brock always said he was. He is his father’s son in all the best ways.

Haddy Our baby girl, Hadley, is in 6th grade—and she joined our family with a bang. From day one, she came into the world ready to shine, and she’s been showing off her big personality ever since. Haddy is our sassy sweetheart. At just 12, she’s already going on 17 (at least in her mind). She keeps us on our toes with her bold spirit, but underneath all that sass is a kind, thoughtful, and incredibly helpful heart. She might wear us out sometimes—but she’s worth every second. We’re so lucky she’s ours.

Mike and Brock have been close friends since grade school. Through all the years, life changes, and chaos—including Brock marrying a crazy lady 20 years ago and us just keeping the kid count going—they’ve managed to keep their friendship strong. Now, we’re entering a new chapter where we get to enjoy having Mike around more, and we’re so thankful for that. I have to say—I like Mike a lot too. He’s an amazing guy, and it makes perfect sense why he and Brock have always been such great friends. Some friendships really do stand the test of time.

Tric (Trish) This is my baby sister, Tric—and truly, she’s my best friend (other than Brock, of course). She’s only two years younger than me, so I don’t remember life without her. We’ve been thick as thieves, partners in crime, ride-or-die since the very beginning. Tric is my biggest cheerleader in life. I honestly wish I could see myself the way she sees me. Even though she’s my little sister, I look up to her in so many ways. She’s not afraid to keep me in line when I need it—because let’s be real, we all know I need it now and then. I can’t say enough good things about my siesta. I just love her. There’s no way I would want to do this day—or any day—without her by my side, if I have anything to say about it.

Vinnie Vinnie is our brother-in-law—and husband to my sister, Tric. We were so excited when he officially joined the family… even if it did take him long enough! He and Brock became fast friends, which surprised no one. I love this guy—not just for who he is, but for the amazing husband he is to my sister. Vinnie came into our lives after we already had all four of our girls, and what really stands out is how he’s taken the time to truly get to know each one of them. That was never something we expected, but he treats them like true nieces, and we love him even more for that. We were honored to be a part of Vinnie and Tric’s wedding—and we couldn’t imagine having ours without him in it, too.

This is my big sister—we just call her Sis. And to the girls, she’s Aunt Sissy. She is, without question, our rock. Sis has been there for me through absolutely everything—good, bad, and all the in-between. She’s always tried to keep me in line (no easy task), and she’s never wavered in her love and support. I honestly can’t put into words how proud I am to call this incredible woman my sister. There was never a question of whether she’d be by our side today—because she always has been, and always will be. She has the biggest heart and would do anything for the people she loves. Sis is the one on the left, by the way. On the right is Mar—and hopefully by the time we renew our vows, she’ll officially be our sister-in-law. She’s pretty awesome herself, and honestly, she’s the perfect match for my big sister. We already consider her family.

Allie is my niece—Heather’s only daughter—and someone who means the world to both Brock and me. She was born when I was just 11, and over the years, we’ve grown up more like sisters at times. But I truly love being her aunt. Like her mom, Allie has a big heart and would do absolutely anything for the people she loves. She came into Brock’s life when she was only 9—but she was already a big part of mine. In fact, Allie is the reason I even met Brock. She needed someone to stay with her at night while my sister worked, and that’s what brought me to Lincoln. And Lincoln is where Brock and I found each other. So not only is Allie incredibly special in her own right—she literally helped me find the love of my life. Now, she’s also blessed us with our great-niece, Lois—and our hearts are just that much fuller because of her.

Amanda (Mander) This is Amanda—Mander to me. She’s my cousin on my dad’s side, and truly one of my favorite people on this earth. Even though we grew up far apart, Amanda was the very best part of my childhood. Every summer, we’d get to stay on my grandma’s farm, and Amanda was always nearby. We had the most amazing adventures together—some of my most treasured memories were made with her. We don’t get to see each other nearly as much as we’d like these days, but we always try to show up for the big moments in life. And there’s no way I could imagine this day without her by my side.

Adrienne and I have been best friends since 6th grade—my ride-or-die for life. Through 30 years of living hours apart, raising kids, juggling busy lives, and loving our spouses, we’ve managed to stay just as close as we were back then. That kind of friendship is rare, and I don’t take it for granted. Brock loves Adrienne nearly as much as I do—and she loves him right back. She’s called him Broccoli since day one, and I don’t think that nickname’s going anywhere. I couldn’t ask for a more loyal, loving, or solid friend than my Adrin. She’s been part of this whole journey with us, and we couldn’t imagine this day without her.

This is my Kimmy—she is my person. Kim is, in so many ways, my husband in female friendship form. She’s one of the most loyal people I’ve ever known, and she genuinely cares—not just about me, but about my whole family. We’ve known each other for years because our girls have been friends since grade school, but we became truly close about eight years ago. And even though she’s a newer chapter in my life, she’s become a major one. Kim became my family at a time and in a way that I didn’t even know I needed. I honestly can’t imagine my life—or this day—without her in it. She’s one of the reasons I believe we were meant to wait this long to have a wedding. Because I needed a Kim.

Tiffany is a newer addition to my life, but it feels like we’ve known each other forever. We met about three years ago at Brock’s 20th class reunion. Brock and Tif go way back—growing up near each other and collecting more than a few fun stories along the way. She and her husband both attended and graduated high school with him. Even though our personal friendship is recent, there’s something timeless about it. Tiffany is an incredibly generous soul and a truly great friend. Friendships come into our lives for a season, a reason, or a lifetime—and this one came to me for a very good reason. I believe we needed each other at exactly this point in our lives. And now that I’ve found her, I’ll do anything to make sure she’s part of my lifetime.

Matt went to high school with Brock and is married to Tiffany. I met him the same night I met her—and let me tell you, he’s a keeper… for her and for us. Matt is one of those genuinely good souls who immediately feels like family. Just like Tif, he’s become a great friend, and together, they’ve become a couple we truly treasure. We’ve got so much in common, and we enjoy every chance we get to spend time with them. Here’s to friendship that feels easy, lasting, and meant to be—because that’s exactly what we’ve found in Matt.

Walker (aka Walkie-Talkie) This handsome little man is Walkie! He’s 2 years old and the sweetest boy you’ll ever meet. Walker is Kim’s son, and he is an absolute treasure. I adore him completely and love to spoil him rotten—just like a good Aunt Hay-Hay should!

Lois (aka Li-Lo, or Little Lois) This is our little Li-Lo—Little Lois. She’s my great-niece, Allie’s daughter, and our precious Goddaughter. Lois is pure perfection. She’s bursting with energy, full of fun, and has a smile that lights up the room… along with the best mean mug you’ve ever seen. She’s the perfect mix of shy and bossy—and somehow pulls off both like a pro. She’s a very special little girl, and we all adore her completely. And yes, she’s definitely a little spoiled… because I personally work very hard to make sure of it.

Uncle Mark (& Aunt Val) This is my Uncle Mark—and, of course, Aunt Val. They were married when I was just 7 years old, and honestly, I can’t remember a time they weren’t together. Their relationship has been one I’ve admired my entire life. When Brock and I started talking about renewing our vows, we were both immediately excited to ask Uncle Mark. He didn’t hesitate for a second—and that’s just a perfect example of who he is. There are too many reasons to count why I respect this man. He’s dependable, wise, and absolutely hilarious. And while we technically don’t need an officiant, he’s certified—and this definitely isn’t his first gig. We are honored to have him standing with us on this special day.